You're listening to the stop, the mind screw podcast. I'm your host, Kathie Owen Certified Fitness Trainer and Mindset Coach since 2002. Transforming lives in magic fasion teaching stop the mind screw process, and today is Tuesday. So, you know what that means? We are talking trans surfing on Tuesday, and today is all about guilt, guilt, Milt. As my best friend in college used to say,
We start right here. Guilt is pure excess potential in nature. There are no notions of good and bad for balanced forces, both good and bad deeds are equipped. The important thing in either case is to restore balance. If excess potential arises, if you have behaved badly, became aware of it and then started to feel guilty.
Oh no, I should be punished. You will have created potential. If you acted with. Become aware of it and started feeling proud of yourself. Oh, I should be rewarded. Then you will have also created potential balance forces, have no concept that some things should be rewarded and others punished. They simply eliminate in homogeneity in the energy field.
The payment for feelings of guilt will always be punishment and one foreman. And now. There is another truth in the saying, impudence is second happiness and general people whose conscious does not bother them are not affected by balanced forces. Even if they have committed a wrongdoing, it would be great if God automatically punished all villains and Culpeper.
Justice would prevail and evil would be overcome. Nonetheless, there is no justice in quotes as such in nature. And so sad as it may be. The opposite happens. Decent people who have any inherent feelings of guilt are the ones who constantly face misfortune. Whereas the shameless and the cynical often go through life.
Not only on punished, but successful feelings of guilt will always produce a script. That includes punishment, whether you are conscious of what is happening are not the 10 commandments are not so much morals and the ethical sense as recommendations for how to maintain balance. The 10 commandments are simply a warning.
As soon as the person indicates that they are willing to absorb guilt, a manipulator, AKA victimizer will stick to that person like glue and feed on their energy that I didn't identic can be avoided by simply refusing to take on feelings of guilt. If you have a tendency to justify yourself, start letting go of it.
Once manipulative individuals realize they no longer have a way of hooking into your energy, they will leave you alone. We're going to discuss this in a moment only you can give others the privilege of being your judge. If you are free of the feeling of guilt, it will never occur to anyone to assert themselves over.
Feeling guilty is a foreign concept to cynics and other types who have no conscious their way of progressing in life is to weigh through the slaughter and walk over other people. It is not surprising that it is often the scrupulous that come to power. Oh, indulging of feelings of guilt can only undermine your position.
Quite the opposite position is true of the timid victim, who is uncertain of whether they are behaving correctly or not. The victim fears being declared guilty, giving everyone the right to administer punishment. Even the faintest most deeply hidden feeling of guilt can open the gates to punishment in the subconscious mind, a person who feels guilt.
Theoretically agrees that robbers and bandits have the right to attack them as a form of punishment. And so they are. Asking for forgiveness, admitting your mistakes, praying for forgiveness and confession are all ways of eliminating the excess potential of guilt. The only thing to be careful of is indulging in remorse.
If a person goes too far in their remorseful attitude, they risk becoming dependent on manipulators, AKA victimizers, who are just waiting for the next visit. When you ask for forgiveness, admit your mistake and release the potential. Manipulators will remind you of your mistake on more than one occasion, trying to reawaken your feelings of guilt.
Do not react to the provocation. Everyone has the right to ask for forgiveness once and once only. Releasing feelings of guilt is the most effective way of surviving in an aggressive environment, such as prison, a gang, the army, or the street trust. No one fear, nothing and ask for nothing exists in the criminal world or in prison.
Demonstrating that personal independence and dignity are valued more highly than physical strength. The key to personal dignity is the absence of guilt and trans surfing. It is considered more preferable to renounce I E to choose. You do not have to squeeze the feeling of guilt out of yourself. It is enough to live by your own.
No one has the right to judge you and you have the right to be yourself. If you allow yourself to be you that need for self-justification will fall away. And the fear of being punished will fade. Then something truly remarkable will happen. No one will dare insult you. So as we see, guilt is a tricky thing.
And most definitely a mind screw it's imperative that you let it go, or it will eat you up inside or even worse. The manipulator, um, the victimizer will eat you for lunch and spit you out. We don't want that. So, how do we deal with guilt? And what do we learn in this episode today? You know, guilt is pure, excess potential.
What does that mean? That just think of it like this. You're just getting all of this stuff added on you and added on you and added on you. And with guilt, it just adds even more. An excess potential is just going to snowball. It's just going to snowball out of control. Like Shakespeare says that there is no such thing as good or bad, but thinking makes it so just like the deem says in the book in nature, there's no such thing as good or bad.
He also talks about truth in the saying that impudence is second happiness. Impudence is like cocky boldness. And you know, my ex has this, uh, he, he, he's an undiagnosed narcissistic personality disorder, but if you notice narcissist. They pick up on the victim, the victim mentality or guilt, and they will pick and pick and pick.
And that is exactly what this. Excerpt in the book is all about and how to get away from it. You know, he says, if you have a tendency to justify yourself, start letting go of it. Because once manipulative individuals realize they no longer have a way of hooking into your energy, they will leave you alone.
And only you can give others the privilege of being your judge. Don't you, that's where your power lies. Don't give that away. If you're free of the feeling of guilt, it will never occur to anyone to assert themselves over you. How nice would that be? Especially if you're used to being bullied all the time and most likely what has happened if you're used to being bullied, is the bully picks up on your, your victim mentality, your guilt mentality, and throws it back out.
A lot of times what that is, is projection on their part because a victimizer can pick that victim mentality out a mile away. Here's something that happened just the other day. I was on a reality revolution page and Facebook. Uh, my friend, Brian Scott runs that page and he had mentioned that, um, that reality trans surfing Renee Garcia, who is now blacklisted from teaching reality, trans surfing by Vadim Zealand.
She had mentioned, um, He and Aaron Dowdy paid for their followers. And I could tell you as a follower of reality revolution, since the very, very beginning that that's not true. And Aaron Dowdy is just such a magnet on his own. He doesn't need to buy followers. So what happened when I saw this, I thought, you know, um, first of all, She, what, what is she talking about?
Why is she even worried about him and why is she talking about him on her channel? And then on top of that, uh, is a projection on her part because she exhibits a lot of narcissistic tendencies. I've seen it. I'm very familiar with that. She's a bully she's been mean to others. I've watched her do it. And it just kinda, you know, I sit back and laugh at her pendulum because that's the best you can do.
You, you just can't worry about it. And poor Brian was, I could sense a little bit of worry in him and I'm like, thinking to myself, please. The, the truth, bubbles up, it's going to come out, whatever it, if you bought them or not. And who cares and why was she even worried about him? That that's, what's funny.
And you know, he's just such a nice guy. And he, he cares about everybody. And I know that we all used to work with Renee and she burned her bridges because of the way she treated everybody. And she got. Overzealous, I guess, I don't know. I don't know what happened to her, but I've got lots of blog posts about that.
If you want to check it out. Because as I said, as far as she goes, me thinks, thought death protests too much us, another Shakespeare saying, but think about it. That's a projection. Why are you even worried about these people? And let's go on with that. I'm wasting my breath on that anymore. You know, my ex-husband used to play on guilt for years and he's even instilled it in everybody that's around him.
That it's funny because. I really think that what happens is the victimizer gets so protective of his, his own victim and his own guilt that he projected onto others. And therefore it just makes the person who's absorbing the guilt feel even worse. There lies excess potential.
And we don't want that. We want to eliminate that. I need to mention Ho'oponopono Ho'oponopono is a forgiveness practice, an ancient Hawaiian forgiveness practice. And it's just these four sentences. I love you. I'm sorry, please forgive me. And thank you. And by saying those four sentences. You're automatically forgive it.
Vadim says in the book, you only need to ask for forgiveness once and once only say ho Pono Pono out loud or to yourself, and I can tell you, it will start releasing that guilt. It's been proven to do it.
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